Well after many a sleepless night trying to talk and reconcile with my wife... Progress! she is calling me babe again (think its a good sign) and I don't think we are arguing (knocks on wood.)
just last night we where speaking and have both decided to seek counselors to help us get things out that we may have been bottling up and causing problems for our relationship.
Thank you all for your prayers (don't stop now) =D
F And FP
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As someone who's been through/going through deployment, it's definitely not easy. Marriage to begin with isn't always easy. Keeping you and your wife in my thoughts and prayers - don't give up, it's worth it! :)
ReplyDeleteOne thing I heard a former psychologist turned doctor, talk about is the most important thing to do when separated.
ReplyDeleteWrite letters ... not email. Letters show your personality in the writing, it gives a piece of you for your wife/ husband to carry.
He said. "Don't talk on the phone!" Most fights happen with just misunderstood voiced words.
So get out that pen and write about your day, how good the food is, the weather. Paint a picture with your words even try a poem just for her.
(Of course while I was in Iraq it did no good for me. He decided to get another woman.)